My personal belief has been that there's more to life than trying to tirelessly accelerate a child being a Doctor, Engineer or Managing Director associated with the Blue Chip Company. They will become anything that and more if they first learn the skill of being a good guy.
When a child exists, he/she comes with as with all brain ready and enthusiastic to see. The brain is like is mostly computer, with gigantic chance of development, depending on what we passed. Early childhood interactions deeply influence how must a person develops, therefore parents have an awesome responsibility towards days to come of their children.
But we as parents are only able to feed them information made a decision our experiences from our parents or World around us. So if I ask you "What do you think about our world today? " You can imagine the way to go and how devastating such an input would be to your child. Not that you would be telling them whatever bad things of the universe, but your child will be informed on from your reactions to the people around you, be it when you find yourself struck in a traffic jam in a street, or arguments with the salesman at the store, looking through the peephole everytime the door bell rings, everything is filed away on child's memory for later use.
Today Multinational companies yield In-house Training Centers coaching their employees soft capability to, man management techniques and team development skills, which should ideally originate from parents. Because schools and universities are only able to impart education, but it's the fault of the parents to impart wisdom, love and trust their own children, for who does and neither love kids who be aware of others or show respect towards elders and enjoy caring towards household.
But in this competitive world, where success is surely an overrated word, with small amount of time and more financial enjoyment, all we want from your child is a 1st rank in education, even if he does not need friends and is cooped up home whole day long, via the TV or Computer. So the values that he learns tap into fast paced internet device or media hyped satellite television on pc channels.
We do not have time for a handful weekly family gathering, outing or a trip to the nearest church, temple too mosque. How then who does expect the child to start to be up to be caring individual that knows what's happening as part of his community and neighborhood? Why should she bother in case there is an accident on interstate, or the community garden will be bulldozed to make path for a shopping mall?
It's sad to observe that with more financial stability people characteristically alienate themselves from the divorce process, friends and the community in some cases stressing more on Cost, English & Science, without a lesson in Humanity!
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